The best way I know to celebrate the coming of the Spring Season is Tantric Lovemaking.  Nature is preparing to come out of hibernation and to sprout billions of flowers and leaves.  Our human heart wants to sprout, too. It wants to give life to a new, fresher, deeper love.

We long to celebrate life’s infinite abundance and joyous expression with our human nature, giving spring a brighter color.

Take time to feel this new energy and allow yourself to express it exuberantly with a loved one.

Start by expressing your gratefulness for having each other and look deeply into each other’s souls through Tantric eye gazing.

Forgive yourself and each other if you have been putting business before love.

Decide to start making up for it now.

Men, take a whole day to serve the Goddess in your woman, and women, to serve the God in your man. You deserve a day of love.

Turn off the phone and don’t even open your computer! This is your time.

If you have children, find them a babysitter.

Let your imagination go wild….. (more…)

This kitty has found a soul sistah in the amazing Carla Tara. In reading her book, I found her writing to be riviting, engaging and direct. She weaves in her life story, and the many lessons she’s learned, into the book that cajoles, teaches and captivates the reader. Her suggested exercises are more about shifting the reader’s perspective on sexuality and the joy they seek in life, rather than your run of the mill sexual aerobics.

Her book is a fast read, pulling you into a seductive world of tantra. The soul change she inspires with her words begins with the allegories of the three faces of Eve, and brings you through the philosophy and practice of Tantra as a spiritual practice. Its a life changing perspective she’s offering, and she puts the tools in your hands.

Carla Tara compares life and Tantra to Argentinian Tango. Its a seductive combination, and yet very appropriate for approaching relationships. She invites you to the dancefloor of love and life, and you simply have to be brave enough to try the steps.

FSK heartily endorses this short yet passionate tome on life, love and sexuality! Get your copy here!

xxx fsk

Making Deposits to Your Energy Account

My greatest desire is to reach a great number of people to share my passion with, and to invite as many as possible
•    to live a more conscious and pleasurable life,
•    to live more in the heart and the creative brain than in the critical brain,
•    to express love by connecting on all levels,
•    and to have great sex.

I believe that having a fulfilling life means living with awareness, intelligence and passion.

While the style of life today provides you with material benefits, the stress it creates takes its toll by draining energy from your body and your psyche.

Many people spend numerous hours at work straining their minds and forcing their bodies to sit in the same position, whereas bodies are made to move and breathe deeply to stay healthy.  (more…)

My life as a Tantra master –
Ecstatic journeys into the Core of my Being

One Day in my life as a Tantra master:

I woke up this morning feeling grateful that I am alive.  Silently, I formulate words of gratefulness and my heart responds to them beating more enthusiastically.  My mouth is shaping in a wonderful smile and my eyes open widely.

Then I take time to tune into the pleasurable current of energy that wakes up my whole body. I place one hand on my heart and the other on my belly, connecting love with power.

Then I gently place one hand on my throat and the other on my genitals to feel kinesthetically the wonderful connection between the communication center and the sex center.

As women we know how expressing pleasant thoughts and receiving communication that show we are seen by our lover opens our hearts. And once our heart is open the energy spirals easily to our sex center and back and forth increasing the energy, preparing us for the best lovemaking. (more…)

Relationship Challenges Showing up after the Holidays

This time of the year is the most challenging for relationships.  We have the highest rate of marriages breaking up after the holidays, and it seems to be a time of stress for most families.

The number of couples that are coming to see me for help after the holidays is greater than during the rest of the year.  Luckily, these are couples who put energy  into make their relationship work.  They notice when something is just not working, and they look for help.

The main reasons we usually give for this sad state of affairs are outer ones:
•    disappointment about presents received that did not match expectations
•    financial difficulties due to overspending on presents

However, those are surface concerns – they may actually be reflecting deeper reasons for these breakups, including:
•    lack of quality time spent with each other
•    lack of communication of real needs that are unfulfilled
•    lack of expression of feelings
•    being unable to reach compromises that take into consideration what is best for the relationship, instead of wanting to be ‘right’ and make the other ‘wrong’
•    lack of gratefulness for who they are and what they already have
•    lack of connection in lovemaking (more…)