SpinTalk had me on again today. Conversation this time - porn in relationships. Pros, cons, myths, pitfalls. It was a fun conversation all around. I stressed that while porn is acceptable as a method of exploring fantasy, it should be done only at the comfort of both parties. And that porn sex is not real sex.

Its good clean fun, sorta…

Look for the audio in a couple of weeks.

xx FSK

Sex is a driven need. Who has the wheel?

As the girlfriend a few low sex drive guys, I can tell you its definitely not always the woman who has the headache.

What happens when one of you accelerates while other pumps the brake?

Maybe its a generational thing, my female friends and I, who have high sex drives, than previous generations of women who had more low sex drive gals in their roster. Perhaps this urban myth needs to die off.

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